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One Last Time.....And Once Again!

One last time, She entered that space; Filled with memories, of fun, learning & craze! Her heart tore a bit, as she realised it was her last day here; On the face beaming with a smile, Her eyes secretly shed a tear! Once again, She had let the black hole rob her of something precious; Once again, She had let the black hole make her anxious! Once again, It was time to be grateful for the experience; Once again, It was time to enter into a new realm of existence! Once again, It was time to start all over again; Once again, It was time to fight, and win over the pain!

25 lessons learnt while being 25!

- You can turn around anything, as long as you are alive. - Whatever Happens, happens for a reason. There are no co-incidences in life, there is only synchronicity. Ever heard, "When the student is ready, the teacher appears"? Yes, that synchronicity. - Stressing and overthinking serves no purpose! Yes, I AM saying this. - No matter how terrible things get, there will always be some people, who will believe in you, and will be kind to you, even when you are a mess. Hold on to them. (I am fortunate enough to have a couple of these people in my life. And would be forever indebted for their support during last 6-8 months. Thank you. You all know who you are :-) ) - Having gratitude makes it easy to deal with all the crap life throws at you! - It takes courage to be authentic. Faking to fit-in is easy, but to delve deeper into your own soul, embrace yourself for who you are and be okay with it, requires courage. - Siblings are a blessing! - Self Ca

My thoughts on Ravinder Singh's new book, "This love that feels right", Open marriages and love outside marriage

This love that feels right, based on the concept, “you can control someone’s actions, not their mind”, is a thought provoking take on open marriages and emotional bonds outside marriage. The book beautifully explores how an emotional void in a relationship can lead to a man or a woman seeking companionship outside marriage, and no, they are not wrong. At the end of the day, we are all human beings, and crave to be deeply understood, valued, and respected by our partner. But when these basic human needs are not satisfied, a man or a woman tends to become more vulnerable to share their innermost feelings with someone who understands, values and respects them. Emotional void is as good as suffocation, and who enjoys that? Of course! Every marriage goes through its ups and downs. You cannot give up on someone you love, just because you had a fight/difference of opinion. Of course not. But what when someone takes the efforts to make things work, but their partner is still indi

He!

Looking at her reflection, she relived him, in spite of the distance! His words, loud and clear; His passion, evident in his eyes; His obsession, manifested in his grip! "He" consumed her with all of it, and left the scars behind! He, an abuser. He, a wife-beater. He, A misogynist.

Don't Love Me!

Don't love me, I am a broken star. Don't love me, I am an open scar Don't love me, I am a violent fire. Don't love me, I am a naked wire. Don't love me, I am the wordless sound. Don't love me, I am the burning wound. Don't love me, I may be hell to a man. Don't love me, I am a flawed woman.

7 self-written personal favourite quotes!

Besides the posts that I write on this blog, Sometimes I also end up wriying some 1-2 liners on facebook or in my personal journal. So, here is a list of my seven personal favourite quotes among them, in random oredr: 1. The day you kill the kid in you, you kill the spark in you. 2. And the pain that destroyed her, also gave her the most beautiful combination of words. 3. Behind every good girl gone bad, lies an untold story of a painful betrayal by a heartless Casanova. 4. You, yes you, are painfully attractive, sinfully appealing & soulfully special. 5. No love story is as strong as the one between an artist and his/her muse. 6. Constant hypocrisy destroyed her, in possibly the most sinfully beautiful way. And the world slammed her for being a Rebel! 7. In the name of sex, love or relationships, what we usually seek is that one person, who would destroy us completely, in possibly the most beautifully sinful manner.

The Rebel

The world has a way, And I do not fit in there. They want me to be caged, But I was born to fly They want me to be sombre, But I am a wild child. They want to lock me in systems, But I am a free spirit. They want me to honour customs, But I defy them outright. They expect me to be submissive, But I question every bit. They expect me to obedient, But I am a rebel. A proud one.