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Dualities in love

Love ain't about falling for a responsible man,
Its about being in love with the kid within him.

Love ain't about falling for someone's perfections,
Its about being in love with someone's flaws

Love ain't about being with someone at their best,
Its about handling them, tirelessly, at their worst

Love ain't about believing in them when they are listening,
Its about not giving up even when they are not ready to listen a word!

Love ain't about forgiving when you understand
Its about forgiving even when you are in immense pain

Light in darkness,
Voice in silence,
Faith in ambiguity
and
Happiness in pain...
That is what love is all about...... :)

Being in love is nothing but:
being kind, wise, selfless and tireless :)

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  1. Nice composition. Yep, love is nothing but being kind, selfless and tireless.

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  2. Your lines when summarised can form the following lines of The Holy Bible

    "Love is patient and kind, it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited, it is never rude or selfish, it does not take offence, or is it resentful. Love takes no pleasure in others’ sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes" - Holy Bible Corinthians 13: 4-8

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